Marriage is .......
Open Communication
Honesty
Affection
Co operation 
Comprehension & acknowledgement of spouses emotions 
Love, pure and clean 
Marriage is NOT .... 
Abuse in any form... mental, emotional, physical, psychological, financial or sexual.
Silence
A game 
A joke 
A reason to try and prove yourself to the society that your not what they think you are.
Many a wise people have written books to both men & women explaining how to treat one another, its truly the dumb egoist who doesn't read them. GET READING. 
