Monday, February 13, 2012

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Thank You sister for your support

Wednesday, February 08, 2012

Marrying blood relations.

Marrying Blood Relations

Click the link above to read the artical.

Principles of Marriage Family Ethics by Professor Ibrahim Amini.

 This is a book that knocked the socks off my feet.
A book that shows soo much respect to a woman that it made me change my thoughts about alot of things in life and how i have experianced many a situations that left me with a negative mark on my heart due to the lack of experiance on ther peoples parts.

Having studied Fiqh ul Nikah for four years early on in reverting to islam, such topics are not new to me..this book is refreshing and gives examples of both men and women's behaviour and how this behaviour can cause divorce and also how positive behaviour can create peace and serenity in marriage.

Enjoy reading !!

Tuesday, February 07, 2012

Unislamic advice given in UAE

UAE nationals advised not to marry foreign women
The UAE nationals have been advised not to marry foreign women due to social, legal and financial complications which arise following such marriages, said a renowned lawyer.

Speaking at the Noor Dubai Radio, Isa bin Haider, CEO of Bin Haider Advocates & Legal Consultants in the UAE, said a large number of cases are pending before the courts due to such marriages.

He pointed out that the young men marry foreign women not to make family but to get rich. But if the husband's income gets depleted, the foreign wives create problems which lead to court cases.

Bin Haider urged the UAE youths to marry the Emarati women who follow the same traditions and customs as men.

He also advised the young nationals not to make big commitments with regard to alimony at the time of marriage and follow the rules.

He said a decree by His Highness Sheikh Khalifa bin Zayed Al Nahyan, President of the UAE, fixed it at Dh50,000 which applies only in case of marriages with the Emirati women.

While the marriages of UAE nationals with foreign women will be subject to what was agreed upon in the marriage contract with regard to alimony.

Bin Haider also informed that the second marriages have additional financial burdens such as leading the young men to deeper debt.

He called for dialogues between couples and urged resorting to solving family problems through discussions and listening to other party’s concerns. He emphasised that if husband listens to wife’s grievances, it will help solve a number of family problems and will lead to a happy life.

According to the National Center for Statistics, most of the marriages by UAE nationals with foreign wives end in divorce. For instance, there were 1,798 marriages with foreigners in UAE last year, and 695, or 39 per cent, of these marriages had ended in divorce.


Monday, February 06, 2012

New arrivals coming soon

After Having this blog for years now, I feel it's time to start putting more info on it from broader views of Muslims world wide and not only a selected few from Saudi ulama. Refreshing ilm about nikah is vital in keeping the marriage youthful and happy. Happy Anniversary to all who are celebrating this year ! ❤